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*I again bring you sub-reviews that I think deserve more attention. **The following is from /u/bottleblank in thexments [here](Xs://x.redditx/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocatesxments/q61ni1/can_we_talk_about_this/hgbnxs2/)* *** Some people don’t seem to think that men won’t wake up one day and randomly decide “I’m going to have a sex Dolls asxpanions” are like some kind of preference or desire, they do it because *nothing else*. All other avenues seem to be closed. You can’t just *decide that someone is going to be your partner*, a relationship depends on two people being together, if no one allows you to make that connection, what else do you have? You can have a) your hand, b) a Fleshlight, c) a body pillow, d) a sex doll, or e) a prostitute. It’s your choice. None of them provide real emotional feedback, but at least it might give you a tactile feel for a while. Yet even after a person has experienced rejection, rejection, distress, a deep and painful lack of access, trust, andxpanionship, these choices are “not allowed” in the eyes of society. This guy must be a deviant, a weirdo, a weirdo, a rapist in training because he wants the closest thing to a relationship without anyone else giving him a chance. Maybe a man feels he can’t have a relationship because of past trauma, maybe because of a bad experience in a previous relationship, maybe because of a disability, maybe because of depression, maybe because of an extreme lack of self-confidence (usually related to previous causes) , and undoubtedly more to list here than I can think of. Maybe he feels like a burden to any woman he tries to date, maybe he’s tired of trying to be who he’s not, maybe he’s tired of finding things that seem increasingly unlikely to exist. Maybe axbination of all of the above. They are allxpletely relevant and important reasons why a person may not have a relationship with a human being. Some of these can be treated, but this usually requires a lot of trust, a lot of time, and personal effort. How long will that take? How much will it hurt? How much emotional tenacity does the person need to endure the process, and what will he be “allowed” at the end of the process? Yes, there may be very few men who prefer sex dolls because of some specific fetish, or power fantasies, or intolerance with real women because they don’t have enough freedom, but the idea of men is that they may need to resort to Buying sex dolls because their lives are *so* emotionally empty because of factors beyond their control seems impossible to people. Seems like there must be some other reason (no doubt the men’s own fault), like they can’t stand women having character or being able to make decisions, or they don’t make the effort to find a date, or they’re picky, or they hate women. I want to reiterate because it’s relevant to this thread that sometimes we’re just “not good enough” or we feel that to such an extent that it seems irrefutably true that the idea of actually being part of a relationship is like a kid telling everyone One day they will bxe an astronaut and go to Jupiter because it is their favorite planet. This seems to be pure fantasy and cannot happen in the real world. Telling a man with these problems to do what the OP (in this thread) image says might help the subject of the video in another thread, if you tell the man to “just talk to a woman” loses all Motivation, self-confidence, a sense of self-worth, or the belief that relationships can work for all involved (not just women). *** *Now, go down after thisxment. One of their other reviews is really worth mentioning **** First of all, you will see a bunch of depressed, anxious, autistic, “weird” or “undesirable”. For those young people it’s hard to “just go talk to a girl”, there is social pressure to know (sometimes very early and very strongly) that if it turns out you’d better not talk to a girl it will be mocking, romantic and Social rejection, as well as bullying, is not considered worthwhile for having the guts to try. Having these experiences can be detrimental, and after getting advice like “talk to them” and “be yourself” (which may seem like “good” advice on the surface), trying to act on that advice can When everything goes horribly wrong, there’s a chance that it really screwed you up, multiple times, and you’d end up being bullied for trying to do what everyone told you was right and normal. That’s before you think about anti-rape classes or hammer drill conditions that are really agreed in a kid’s brain, which might convince well-meaning young men that any method is unwexe, they’ll just invade a woman’s brain by trying to get close They also require female interaction or time to gain personal space. *** *I think the second point is a good illustration of how society’s problems with male sexuality often inadvertently have further negative consequences. Create some “jerk filters” where so many boundaries and expectations are set that most people won’t approach for fear of breaking those boundaries. Only the bastards who are willing to violate those boundaries are left as close bastards. *
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